Jul 5 2026 | By: High Degree Media
I'm not a wedding photographer by trade. Suhasini and Lucas's wedding in the Catskills came to me as one of those opportunities you don't say no to, a chance to step outside what I normally shoot and see if I could rise to it. Fusion weddings look effortless in the photos and are almost never effortless to plan, and they deserve a lot of credit for pulling off a day that blended two cultures without either one feeling like an afterthought.
The morning started with the haldi ceremony, turmeric paste applied to the bride and groom by their family as a blessing before the wedding, and it happened to be pouring rain that day. Nobody seemed to mind. Suhasini and Lucas ended up covered in yellow from head to shoulder, laughing through most of it, and at one point their dog got pulled in too and came away with a turmeric covered face and the same patient expression dogs get when they know something is happening to them and have decided not to fight it. It's one of my favorite frames from the whole weekend.
The quieter part of the morning happened upstairs, where Suhasini's sisters helped weave her hair into a long braid and thread it with fresh jasmine and rose, a look called a veni that takes real patience to get right. Those getting ready moments, sisters doing each other's hair, nobody in a rush yet, are usually where I catch the calmest photos of the whole day, before the ceremony starts and everything speeds up.
By the time the ceremony started, the rain had cleared into a clear blue sky over the lake, which felt like the day rewarding everyone for waiting it out. The priest led the rituals in the traditional way, and Lucas's father stood in with him in a veshti and angavastram of his own, marked with the same sandalwood and kumkum as the priest and groom. That's the kind of detail that tells you a family went all in on making this feel like a real joint tradition instead of two ceremonies stitched together. The garland exchange, or jaimala, was the moment the whole crowd had been waiting for, and it's always one of the easiest moments to photograph because nobody has to be told how to feel.
This one was actually new territory for me. What made it work was a conversation with the family beforehand about the order of events, haldi, the getting ready, the priest's rituals, the garland exchange, so I wasn't guessing on the day itself. I'd rather be upfront about that than pretend I've done a hundred of these, and it's the same prep I'd do for any tradition I'm less familiar with.
More than you think. Indian weddings often run across multiple events, haldi, mehndi, sangeet, the ceremony itself, and the reception, and each one has its own moments worth capturing. Couples who book me for the full weekend almost never regret it, and the ones who book for just the ceremony almost always wish they'd booked more.
That's exactly what happened with Suhasini and Lucas, right down to Lucas's father standing beside the priest in traditional dress. The key is treating both sides of the day with the same amount of attention instead of treating one as the main event and the other as an add on.
Most of my work happens in Central New Jersey, but for the right project I'll travel, and Catskill, New York was worth every mile of the drive. The mountains gave us a background you can't fake in a studio, and once the rain cleared, the late afternoon light did most of the work for me.
Weddings are long, and the parts people remember are rarely the parts anyone planned. A dog getting haldi paste on its nose. The concentration on a sister's face while she pins in a flower braid. The second right before the garlands go on, when both people are trying not to laugh from nerves. That's the stuff I'm actually there for.
Suhasini and Lucas got a full gallery that covers the tradition, the rain, the sun that came after it, and the parts of the day that were just plain fun. It's the kind of project that reminds me why it's worth stepping outside my usual work every once in a while.
Thank you to Suhasini and Lucas for having me, and for the chance to shoot something so different from what I usually do. I'm Amardeep, and most of what I photograph is families, maternity sessions, and engagements across Central New Jersey. But if your wedding is blending two cultures, two families, or just two people who don't do anything the traditional way, I'd love to hear about it. Reach out and tell me more.
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